I just take every event or situation in my life good or bad and chalk it up to an experience that i as an individual am lucky enough to have had the chance to experience first hand. Do i stutter? Yes. But most people don't so i get to see both sides of the coin while others don't. Same goes for everything else in my life. Every hardship isn't a negative. They are experiences that i get to grow from. If we look at a stutter as a handicap of some sort. Then we are doomed to be depressed. Best wishes.