His parents got married sight unseen. His older brother had a 7 day courtship. He was "allowed" to live with his last cheater gfor 2 years before she "ruined his reputation by cheating on him". At least he negotiated 10 days. Its super cultural. and some people have no way out. Reasons why I left that place. 10 days is long over there, any longer and it would sully both their reputations. I know its hard to understand but its the reality.