I would prefer they don’t get posted at all. But I don’t think those posts should be banned or anything. The natural conclusion to realizing you’ve unknowingly been hurting feelings, is to adjust whatever was causing hurt feelings. Or do nothing, you don’t have to care. For anyone that does care, my advice is to only make your posts gendered if they need to be. Stuttering is not a gendered issue, us women face almost the exact same problems that you do. We experience increased levels of loneliness and depression as well. Also, consider why you would only want a male perspective. What’s wrong with a few comments from women? You don’t actually have to listen to anyone on the internet, so why limit the diversity of comments?