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I feel for you. Do you think it's because of your stutter that you're not getting the jobs? Just curious, do you tell interviewers about it beforehand? Maybe if you told them at the start of the interview, it would take some of the pressure off. You got the degree; don't worry, you can do this, too. To answer your question, I'm a writer and I work from home. You'd think that being a writer would be the ultimate no-stress job for a PWS, but actually, these days, you're expected to do a lot of self-promotion and public speaking. The first time I had to speak to an audience, I was beyond terrified. Now, years later, I'm genuinely fine about speaking in public, even to large crowds -- I'd even say I enjoy it. And I think it's significantly helped my stutter, because it's shown me that even if I stutter in front of a crowd (once my idea of a fate worse than death), no one really gives a shit; the world goes on. So I'm a lot more accepting of myself now and don't tend to panic when I block on something, which is a huge help. I do still get pretty nervous if I have to give a reading of my work, though. You know the reason, I'm sure: you can't easily word-substitute when you're reading something out loud. So now, if I know I'm going to have to, I choose a particular passage and practice it over and over. If it's too hard, I choose another one. I note the places where I'm likely to stumble and figure out beforehand how I'll cope with them. As you know, though, sometimes the stutter will leap out -- GOTCHA! -- and surprise you no matter what you do. I've given some great, perfectly fluent readings, and also some awful ones where I blocked all over the place. C'est la vie. Other jobs I've had were mostly on the receptionist/PA spectrum. I hated, HATED answering the phone. Or making phone calls where I had to explain who I was, the company I worked for, and so on. I don't know if anyone I ever worked with guessed about my stutter - I'm pretty covert - but with all the "Oh, gosh, what's that extremely common word, I just can't remember," I was doing, they must have thought I was weird as fuck at times, LOL. But I got through it. At each job, I figured out ways to cope. Looking back, the anxiety about the stutter was way worse than the stutter itself. I don't know why there's so much shame attached to stuttering, or why there's so little dialogue about it as a society. It's not exactly something we can help. Keep trying; don't ever give up on your dream. You'll get there.