Hey, this is a super hard challenge, lived it and struggled with it personally for a lot of years! But, I wanted to record a short video (3 minutes) for you answering this question, with something I’ve done and a tip too. I could talk about this for hours, so I’m really giving you the best I could in short time. [Short YouTube video answering your question!](https://youtu.be/6XPFiZn1LDM?si=ubcD-RGJMnrnGMAW)