postr/StutterNovember 12, 2025

Seeing the interest fade as soon as you stutter

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Seeing the interest fade as soon as you stutter I been randomly walking downtown by myself on a Friday or Saturday where all the bars and clubs are (don’t ask me how I ended up their) And attractive girls would literally walk up and talk to me “OMG YOUR SO FINE” and they show SOOO MUCH INTEREST and as soon as you stutter you can see the look/interest in their eyes fade or their smile turns into a frown Or I I’ve had girl try and talk to me outside the bar and soon as the stutter their faces goes “😬” Has anybody had success with girls in night life?

Themes

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering

Subthemes

Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentRepetitions & Prolongations

Codes (3)

ordering_service_encounterlistener_reactionperceived_judgment