I am going to repeat something that has already been said, but Zen addresses precisely this type of problems. This lecture goes into the sorts of problems related to letting go of oneself even if it does not have to do with Zen directly: [https://youtu.be/gH3eGosOqXU?si=XEAtbApOd3leURuY](https://youtu.be/gH3eGosOqXU?si=XEAtbApOd3leURuY)