Thank you so much for taking the time out to write all of this. She is more like you in her make-up in that she is on the shy side. Do you think I should encourage her to try and talk to kids more, or leave her be in her current disposition of being the quiet kid without many friends. I don’t wanna put too much pressure on her, but at the same time I want her to realize that she needs to work through this. Unsure which is the right approach.