I find that ultimately any girl worth your time and affection won't mind or won't notice. I know from my various relationships (and friendships) that most people stop noticing the stutter unless it's a bad episode. If I asked my ex-girlfriend about it, I know that she would say it didn't affect anything in our relationship. Attitude and personality aren't only verbal, and even the most severe stutterer can communicate a world with a smile and a raised eyebrow. My stutter varies from severe to non-existent, and the only other thing I can say with any certainty is that using anything but the most medically severe stutter as an excuse for not being out there and trying to live your life is just that... an excuse. Online dating works well for people like us as well.