postr/StutterOctober 22, 2025

The incel guy

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The incel guy There is a guy in our group, who just comments one thing in most of the post. People are incel. Like a guy got a pu**y and now he is saying everybody else who doesn't have one are incel. Every post he just somehow shoves incel in the comments. I don't think he even know the definition of incel, so let me put for him. An incel is a member of an online subculture of mostly male and heterosexual people who define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one. They often blame, objectify, and denigrate women and girls as a result. In our community, "I" never saw a post where a person is blaming women, or society for not getting partner, they usually blame their stuttering and unable to do what they need to do. But this guy, every time, this guy says because his wife or girlfriend doesn't care about his stutter, so now stutter is not the problem at all. Just tell how many of you feel like, it is even hard to make friends. Communication plays important role in making relationship. We are not blaming anyone, nobody owes us anything, people have their life, their own struggle, right, but that doesn't mean stutter is not being obstacle in our life. Many time this guy also says, "stuttering is not a problem at all" he says we all are lazy, not doing anything just crying. How the f**k do you know, we are trying or not, what about trying, trying, trying and falling. Bro change your id name to "incel guy" because nobody else is talking about incel, it is just myou.

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Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience

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Stigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger