commentr/StutterDecember 30, 2025

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22yo mildly socially awkward broke college kid lol Never really dated in high school but had kind of a social glow up in the later college years and dated a couple of people. Currently going on like a month with my current girlfriend, she's pretty cool imo. I've sort of realized it's not as difficult and scary as it seems. Girls (many of them, at least) are often similarly timid to approach guys. The only thing that affects your chances of *approaching* is you. Whether or not it works depends on a lot of things, your stutter of course being one of them. But it's not everything. Honestly my biggest tip is to just put yourself in more social situations. Get comfortable talking to people, and find a group you like being around. You'll find someone eventually. As easy as it sounds, I think this is really a situation that can't be taught to you by another person. It's really just something you need to figure out via trial and error. I dont totally understand it myself. But you'll get there.

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Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships

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Hope & MotivationDating & Romance